Are You Ready For Love?
Have you ever thought 'This is THE one for
me' and discovered sometime later you couldn't bear the thought
of staying with him or her a moment longer? Has this happened
more than once? Do you want to stop the heartbreak cycle? Do you
want to meet your soul mate and enjoy a lifetime of lasting love?
If you answered 'yes' to the questions above, get ready to change
Love doesn't just happen, we make
it happen through physical, emotional and intellectual choices.
Operate on only one or two of those levels, and risk failure.
Racing hearts and raging hormones may spark a relationship, but
they don't keep fires burning. When we incorporate our whole beings,
and put 'thought' into love, we increase our chances of loving
Knowing how to choose a partner wisely is largely determined by
how well you know yourself. Start by asking yourself the following
questions. Who am I? What do I want? Write your answers down.
Take your time, be thorough. An hour, day, week or month is small
price to pay for true love. Make a list of your personality traits,
interests and hobbies, health practices, entertainment preferences,
educational background, philosophical attitudes, professional
and financial goals. Do the same for your 'perfect partner'. Outline
" must have ", " nice to have " and just as important, what you
may not like but are willing to overlook and accept.
Gaining perspective in this way, you will
make better choices. Go for it! Find the soul mate you seek and
make love happen!
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