5 Ways to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You
Some people will read this
and think what I'm suggesting is wrong. I admit it's about manipulating
and meddling with people's emotions. Most particularly, people
you wish to God would meddle with you. In an ideal world, I'd
agree. It would be preferable if everyone you wanted just fell
in your lap, without having to play games.
Unfortunately, real life doesn't always work that way.
Sometimes you can spend six months living,
breathing, dripping, drooling, loving and lusting after someone
with zero result. And it's when that happens that the techniques
that follow suddenly seem like a gift from heaven. Besides, it's
not like I'm proposing black magic or suggesting any of these
techniques will force someone to fall in love with you against
their will. (If they did, I'd currently be shacked up with Brad
Pitt.) What they will do though is nudge the odds a lot higher
in your favor. Is that really so bad? I don't think so. Go on,
keep reading. You know you want to...
Check this out: "How to make him fall in love with you:"
• Hang Around Lots...but Then Be Unavailable
The more you interact with someone, the more they'll like you,
says David Lieberman, a U.S. expert in human behavior. He's right
actually. Several studies show repeated exposure to practically
any stimulus makes us like it more (the only time it doesn't hold
true is if our initial reaction to it is negative). So forget
about being aloof, evasive, and unavailable in the beginning.
Instead, find lots of excuses to spend time with him.
• Let Them Do Nice Things for You If
you do something nice for someone, it makes you feel good on two
levels. You feel pleased with yourself and extra-warm toward the
person you've just spoiled. To justify the effort or expense,
we often over-idealize how wonderful he is to deserve it! End
result: we like the person more. When someone does something nice
for us, we're pleased. But there are a whole lot of other emotions
that come into play -- and they're not all good. Sometimes we
• Give Them the Eye It's possible
to tell how "in love" people are by measuring the amount
of time they spend gazing adoringly. Some psychologists still
use it during counseling to work out how much affection couples
feel for each other. It also happens to be remarkably handy information
if you want to make someone fall in love with you.
• Don't Look Away The couples took
longer to look away when someone else joined the conversation.
Again, if you do this to someone who's not in love with you (yet),
you trick his brain into thinking he is, and even more PEA floods
into his bloodstream.
• Practice Pupillometry We all
know "bedroom eyes" when we see them: it's the look
of lust. There's just one thing you need for bedroom eyes: big
pupil. According to pupillometry, the science of pupil study,
this is the crucial element we respond to.
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